The Bible consistently warns about being divisive. In Proverbs 6:16-19 we are taught that sowing “discord among brothers" is one of the seven things that the Lord hates. God hates to see people stir up division among his people.
The Apostle Paul warns people to stay away from those who create division (Romans 16:17-18). People who cause divisions and offenses do not serve the Lord Jesus Christ, but their own belly. They are, in fact, working with the enemy.
How can we seek unity? What can we do to avoid conflict? Here are seven steps to help you avoid conflict or to give you the courage to reconcile:
* Remember The Command to Love
Jesus's central message was love. He commanded His followers to love one another as He loved them (John 13:34-35). Conflict directly opposes this core principle. Love is our prime directive!
* Consider Your Christian Witness
When Christians engage in conflict, it harms their testimony to the world. It creates a perception of hypocrisy and undermines the credibility of the Gospel. We must consider the great commission (Matthew 28:18-20, Mark 16:15-16).
* Reflect on Spiritual Growth
Conflict breeds negative emotions like bitterness, resentment, and anger, which can hinder spiritual growth and block the work of the Holy Spirit in their lives. Think about the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). How can division promote growth? It can’t.
* Don’t Disrupt Fellowship
Christian fellowship is meant to be a source of support, encouragement, and unity. Conflict fractures these bonds and creates division within the body of Christ. This is why we are urged not to forsake assemblies or service (Hebrews 10:24-25).
* Know the Value of Forgiveness
Christianity emphasizes the importance of forgiveness. Holding onto grudges and engaging in conflict goes against the principle of forgiving others as Christ forgave us. Ephesians 4:32 says, “Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.”
* Seek Unity in Christ
The Bible stresses the unity of believers in Christ (Ephesians 4:3). Conflict disrupts this unity and weakens the collective strength of the Christian community. We need to go about building one another up, not tearing each other down.
* Give Heed to the Devil
The Bible warns that anger, and unresolved conflict, gives place to the devil (Ephesians 4:27). This means that when conflict is present, there is a door open for negative spiritual influences to cause further division, and harm.
While disagreements may arise, Christians are called to handle them with grace, humility, and a commitment to reconciliation. God is not the Author of confusion (I Corinthians 14:33). He is a God of Love and Harmony. His children ought to be just like Him!
You are loved.
Ray Reynolds, PhD
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