The Mirror of Love: Loving Your Neighbor as Yourself
- Ray Reynolds, Ph.D.
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Most of us are familiar with the "Golden Rule" found in Matthew 7:12, and we recognize the two greatest commandments discussed in Mark 12:28-34. But there is a curious thought interjected at the end of the second command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.”
Starting in the Family
What does that mean? Clearly, the world needs to see the love of Christ. If you have a hard time showing love to people in the world, or even your enemies, a great place to start practicing is within your church family. We must learn to love our brothers and sisters with the same care and concern we naturally show to ourselves.
The Old Testament Foundation
This isn't a new concept. In the Old Testament, the Israelites were taught specifically not to harbor hatred. They were told not to hate their brothers in their hearts and to avoid taking vengeance. The standard has always been to treat the "other" with the same dignity we desire.
Practical Selflessness
Loving yourself isn't about vanity; it’s about the natural instinct we have to feed, clothe, and protect ourselves. When Jesus tells us to love our neighbor "as ourselves," He is calling us to have that same "instinct" for the well-being of others. When a neighbor is hungry, we feel the pangs; when they are hurting, we feel the sting.
The Blueprint of Empathy
This "as yourself" standard serves as a perfect blueprint for empathy in a fractured society. It forces us to pause and ask, "If I were in their position—facing their specific struggle, grief, or confusion—how would I hope to be treated?" This simple shift in perspective can dissolve prejudice and bridge gaps of misunderstanding. By treating our neighbor’s reputation, needs, and soul as dearly as our own, we move from a life of self-preservation to a life of purposeful service. It is in this selfless exchange that the "Golden Rule" moves from a nice saying to a life-changing reality.
You are loved.
Ray Reynolds
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